Stress
The two people that brought this drama up are possibly my two greatest causes for extra anxiety over the course of the past 2 years. One is a girl, we'll call her C, and other other is a guy, who I'll refer to as T.
I dated C for half of my sophomore year of high school, I've always tried to be kind to her, but her treatment of me has always been somewhat bipolar. Sometimes it's obvious she still likes me, and sometimes she treats me like a piece of scum. Despite these highs and lows, I still make an effort to treat her with respect, especially because out circles of friends have lots of overlap.
T dated C for a few months, and has liked her for much longer. When mine and C's relationship was coming to a close, T would always hold her and tell her how much he loved her and such. When I heard C and T were acting like this behind my back I was understandably hurt. This was also my first introduction to what kind of a person T was. Eventually I found out that T and C had been doing things behind my back for almost half of our relationship, maybe more. This left a sour taste in my mouth afterwards, and in the summer after we broke up T and C started dating. Throughout the time they dated I made it my personal goal to wreck T and C's relationship so that T would understand how he had made me feel. In retrospect, I wish I hadn't succeeded, but I did. As a result T has since had a dislike for me which is now why I think he brought all this drama up. None of the drama is important, but I think he just wanted a way to get back at me just a little bit more. Lesson learned, be kind to others whenever possible, even if it's not practical or doesn't seem like the right thing to do.
Hope your enjoying the tidbits of my life.
Drew
I dated C for half of my sophomore year of high school, I've always tried to be kind to her, but her treatment of me has always been somewhat bipolar. Sometimes it's obvious she still likes me, and sometimes she treats me like a piece of scum. Despite these highs and lows, I still make an effort to treat her with respect, especially because out circles of friends have lots of overlap.
T dated C for a few months, and has liked her for much longer. When mine and C's relationship was coming to a close, T would always hold her and tell her how much he loved her and such. When I heard C and T were acting like this behind my back I was understandably hurt. This was also my first introduction to what kind of a person T was. Eventually I found out that T and C had been doing things behind my back for almost half of our relationship, maybe more. This left a sour taste in my mouth afterwards, and in the summer after we broke up T and C started dating. Throughout the time they dated I made it my personal goal to wreck T and C's relationship so that T would understand how he had made me feel. In retrospect, I wish I hadn't succeeded, but I did. As a result T has since had a dislike for me which is now why I think he brought all this drama up. None of the drama is important, but I think he just wanted a way to get back at me just a little bit more. Lesson learned, be kind to others whenever possible, even if it's not practical or doesn't seem like the right thing to do.
Hope your enjoying the tidbits of my life.
Drew
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